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		<title>By: Endy</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-2445</link>
		<dc:creator>Endy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 16:16:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good writings. Keep on writing. My country is heading toward the &quot;Angry bearded and covered in black&quot; look. It use to be very moderate, peacefull and tolerance :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good writings. Keep on writing. My country is heading toward the &#8220;Angry bearded and covered in black&#8221; look. It use to be very moderate, peacefull and tolerance <img src='http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Khalid</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1876</link>
		<dc:creator>Khalid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 22:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt; in western nations, and most metropolitan muslim areas, hair is no longer linked to sexual provocation. &lt;/em&gt;
Of course it is, more so than ever before.  There&#039;s a huge industry devoted to making women more sexually attractive, and hair is a part of that.  

&lt;em&gt; provocative or revealing dress does not necessarily link to promiscuous behavior; &lt;/em&gt;
Not necessarily.  There are prostitutes who wear the niqab in some places, and there are women who wear skirts who are chaste.  And there are indeed a lot of Muslim women who don&#039;t wear the headscarf who are otherwise more moral than some of their covered counterparts.  But even most western guys have an idea of what a &#039;skanky&#039; girl looks like, and that look much more often includes a mini-skirt than a headscarf.

&lt;em&gt;nor is such behavior, when undertaken safely, bad.&lt;/em&gt;
That is your opinion and you are welcome to it.  However, most Western men, given the choice, will much prefer to commit to a less promiscuous woman than a more promiscuous one.  Perhaps commitment and family are not important to you.

&lt;em&gt;it safe to say that other religious dictates, such as charity, to name a common one, are more important than, say, the clothing one chooses to wear.&lt;/em&gt;
Maybe, but it&#039;s not an either-or choice.  And I would bet that those who are willingly more conscious of the &quot;public good&quot;/less individualistic in their dress will be more conscious of the &quot;public good&quot;/less individualistic generally.

&lt;em&gt;What, then, does the typical christian look like?&lt;/em&gt;
Historically, Christian women also wore headscarves.  Today, less so, but a devout Christian woman is probably still less likely to dress in a skanky fashion.  Her standards may be similar to her secular counterparts, but she&#039;s not going to go quite as low.


&lt;em&gt; Do the majority of muslims wear burkas, and if not, are those who do really more representative of a faith, or just more representative, as the original author said, of the particular minority of the faith that the media tends to enjoy?&lt;/em&gt;

Religious Muslim women still tend to wear headscarves and the like, etc.  I would say that people like Ingrid Mattson, Marlyn Moringten, Shahina Siddiqui, Sarah Joseph, and so on are far more representative of Islam than individualists like Mona are.  (And as Mona is fond of saying, she represents only herself, so this won&#039;t bother her.)  But yes, in these cases, the dress itself is merely a reflection of knowledge and inner qualities.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em> in western nations, and most metropolitan muslim areas, hair is no longer linked to sexual provocation. </em><br />
Of course it is, more so than ever before.  There&#8217;s a huge industry devoted to making women more sexually attractive, and hair is a part of that.  </p>
<p><em> provocative or revealing dress does not necessarily link to promiscuous behavior; </em><br />
Not necessarily.  There are prostitutes who wear the niqab in some places, and there are women who wear skirts who are chaste.  And there are indeed a lot of Muslim women who don&#8217;t wear the headscarf who are otherwise more moral than some of their covered counterparts.  But even most western guys have an idea of what a &#8217;skanky&#8217; girl looks like, and that look much more often includes a mini-skirt than a headscarf.</p>
<p><em>nor is such behavior, when undertaken safely, bad.</em><br />
That is your opinion and you are welcome to it.  However, most Western men, given the choice, will much prefer to commit to a less promiscuous woman than a more promiscuous one.  Perhaps commitment and family are not important to you.</p>
<p><em>it safe to say that other religious dictates, such as charity, to name a common one, are more important than, say, the clothing one chooses to wear.</em><br />
Maybe, but it&#8217;s not an either-or choice.  And I would bet that those who are willingly more conscious of the &#8220;public good&#8221;/less individualistic in their dress will be more conscious of the &#8220;public good&#8221;/less individualistic generally.</p>
<p><em>What, then, does the typical christian look like?</em><br />
Historically, Christian women also wore headscarves.  Today, less so, but a devout Christian woman is probably still less likely to dress in a skanky fashion.  Her standards may be similar to her secular counterparts, but she&#8217;s not going to go quite as low.</p>
<p><em> Do the majority of muslims wear burkas, and if not, are those who do really more representative of a faith, or just more representative, as the original author said, of the particular minority of the faith that the media tends to enjoy?</em></p>
<p>Religious Muslim women still tend to wear headscarves and the like, etc.  I would say that people like Ingrid Mattson, Marlyn Moringten, Shahina Siddiqui, Sarah Joseph, and so on are far more representative of Islam than individualists like Mona are.  (And as Mona is fond of saying, she represents only herself, so this won&#8217;t bother her.)  But yes, in these cases, the dress itself is merely a reflection of knowledge and inner qualities.</p>
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		<title>By: Isabella Jacoby</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1870</link>
		<dc:creator>Isabella Jacoby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Khalid- 
What do you mean by &quot;better?&quot;  Modesty is not synonymous with morality, especially antiquated forms of modesty like headscarves.  In rural muslim areas, bare heads might be considered provocative, but in western nations, and most metropolitan muslim areas, hair is no longer linked to sexual provocation.  In addition, provocative or revealing dress does not necessarily link to promiscuous behavior; nor is such behavior, when undertaken safely, bad.  

In addition, even granting that modest and/or traditional dress makes people &quot;better,&quot; isn&#039;t it safe to say that other religious dictates, such as charity, to name a common one, are more important than, say, the clothing one chooses to wear.  You say that &quot;all things being equal,&quot; those dressed more traditionally are better representatives of their faith.  What, then, does the typical christian look like?  Do the majority of muslims wear burkas, and if not, are those who do really more representative of a faith, or just more representative, as the original author said, of the particular minority of the faith that the media tends to enjoy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Khalid-<br />
What do you mean by &#8220;better?&#8221;  Modesty is not synonymous with morality, especially antiquated forms of modesty like headscarves.  In rural muslim areas, bare heads might be considered provocative, but in western nations, and most metropolitan muslim areas, hair is no longer linked to sexual provocation.  In addition, provocative or revealing dress does not necessarily link to promiscuous behavior; nor is such behavior, when undertaken safely, bad.  </p>
<p>In addition, even granting that modest and/or traditional dress makes people &#8220;better,&#8221; isn&#8217;t it safe to say that other religious dictates, such as charity, to name a common one, are more important than, say, the clothing one chooses to wear.  You say that &#8220;all things being equal,&#8221; those dressed more traditionally are better representatives of their faith.  What, then, does the typical christian look like?  Do the majority of muslims wear burkas, and if not, are those who do really more representative of a faith, or just more representative, as the original author said, of the particular minority of the faith that the media tends to enjoy?</p>
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		<title>By: gazelledusahara</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1188</link>
		<dc:creator>gazelledusahara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 20:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome! the Muslim community is so diverse and focusing on a few symbolic modes of dress or grooming to characterize all is wrong.  People are missing out on what it means to be Muslim, because they are so focused on narrow understandings of what it means to look Muslim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome! the Muslim community is so diverse and focusing on a few symbolic modes of dress or grooming to characterize all is wrong.  People are missing out on what it means to be Muslim, because they are so focused on narrow understandings of what it means to look Muslim.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona Eltahawy</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1149</link>
		<dc:creator>Mona Eltahawy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 18:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks much for the link, Marwa!

So sorry I didn&#039;t contact you during my last trip which was quite exhausting - I lost my voice! But I hope to catch you next time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks much for the link, Marwa!</p>
<p>So sorry I didn&#8217;t contact you during my last trip which was quite exhausting &#8211; I lost my voice! But I hope to catch you next time.</p>
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		<title>By: Marwa Rakha</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1143</link>
		<dc:creator>Marwa Rakha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 20:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://globalvoicesonline.org/2008/11/27/is-secularism-the-answer-to-egypts-sectarianism/

Thanks Mona</description>
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<p>Thanks Mona</p>
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		<title>By: Khalid</title>
		<link>http://www.monaeltahawy.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-1129</link>
		<dc:creator>Khalid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 22:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You make a valid point.  You don&#039;t have to have the full-on &#039;exotic&#039; look to be a Muslim, and dressing in that way is not a guarantee of piety. 

At the same time, I do recognize the beard and the hijab as being more authentic modes of Muslim dress.  *All else being equal*, people who willingly make that effort are better representatives of the faith than say, someone unbearded like me.  Religious people *should* be more modest, and more resistant to (sometimes oppressive) prevailing notions of beauty than the typical modern person.  If religion doesn&#039;t lead to better behaviour, what&#039;s the point of it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You make a valid point.  You don&#8217;t have to have the full-on &#8216;exotic&#8217; look to be a Muslim, and dressing in that way is not a guarantee of piety. </p>
<p>At the same time, I do recognize the beard and the hijab as being more authentic modes of Muslim dress.  *All else being equal*, people who willingly make that effort are better representatives of the faith than say, someone unbearded like me.  Religious people *should* be more modest, and more resistant to (sometimes oppressive) prevailing notions of beauty than the typical modern person.  If religion doesn&#8217;t lead to better behaviour, what&#8217;s the point of it?</p>
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